Sunday, April 15, 2007

Question #7

What were your grandparents like? Do you have any special memories of them? Do you remember any stories that they told you about themselves or your parents?

2 comments:

Our Deli-Sub said...

I have lots of memories of my Grandmas (Clyda and Beatrice) and Grandpa (Veon) so I will just pick 1 of each.
Beatrice: We watched a lot of TV and she had this big yellow easy chair that she sat in. She would always fall asleep in the chair and her head would bob up and down with some quite snores. If you asked her if she was ready to go to bed she would always say "Oh no, I am going to watch the 10:00 news." She usually slept through most of it but always stayed up to "watch" it. One thing that I loved about watching TV with her was that I would lay on the couch and hold her hand and rub her 'wrinkles'. I don't know if it was a comfort thing or a habit but I always enjoyed sitting on the couch reaching across and holding hands until we went to bed.
Clyda: I remember Grandma teaching me how to make a bed. Before we lived with her we would spend the night there quite often and one time I came in the kitchen for breakfast and she asked me if I had made my bed. I told her no that I didn't know how (Beatrice always made my bed so I had never had to do it). She kindly took me in and showed me how to make a bed and told me that now that I knew I could make my own bed when I spent the night. Later when I moved in with her she would always say, "My job is to make you as independent as I can as fast as I can because I may not be here tomorrow."
Veon: One time we took a trip (I think to Yellowstone) and crossed the continental divide. We had this on going joke where he would ask me to tell him about the continental divide and I would tell him verbatim what he had taught me. The thing I remember the most about him was how good he was to Grandma. I loved to see them together.

Anonymous said...

I barely made it into the right generation. My parents were the age of my peers' grandparents. (My mother was the same age as Grandma Cope). I never knew my mother's parents, who dide before I was born. And my dad's mother died when I was 5. She had a reputation of being a "worry-er." That's probably part of the root system of my dad's social anxiety. Grandpa Nickle was a big man with a big voice. He often delivered a powerful sermon about the restoration of the gospel, which I heard so many times I can still quote lines from it. ("And I saw another angel flying in the midst of Heaven, carrying the everlasting gospel....." etc. etc.). He had been a Protestent preacher before they converted to the LDS church, and he still had a very Evangelical ring to his delivery. In his later years he married and divorced three or four times. I sensed my dad was disappointed (if not disgusted) with his behavior. He died when I was 17, on the day I had an orientation for a new job. I was too young and foolish to know that I could have rescheduled, so I missed his funeral! I was also too young and foolish to understand what that might have meant to my dad.
-Sonja