Thursday, March 6, 2008

Question #47

What have been the pivotal moments of your life thus far?

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Being born
Taking art classes
Getting married
Graduating from Westminster
Moving to the Oregon Coast
Moving from the Oregon coast
Learning how to be REALLY poor
Applying for disability
Getting disability
Living well on disability
Making sure my DNR is visable
Living amongst some unhappy,
bullying, angry seniors
Living amongst happy, energetic,intelliegent seniors.
Wishing I would wake up,dead
Living life a "happy camper"
Marilyn

Anonymous said...

Most of the "pivotal moments" of my life have been the result of long, deliberate and sometimes painful turning, rather than pivots. One of the first was my earliest memory (which I've addressed in an earlier post) when I surrendered my voice to my father at the age of 2 and a half or so.
The next was probably moving from Mo. to Utah and the long, painful process of overcoming a profound homesickness. The turning point for that was when I went back to school in 8th grade, with my hair grown back out from the ugly cut my sister's friend gave me on the way to Utah, and discovering that people (boys particularly) found me attractive. (8th grade is that age, you know).
As I look back now, my seminary graduation was probably some form of turning point. This was not because it was Seminary Graduation, but because it was my first conscious, deliberate act of defiance. When we walked to the center of the stage to receive our "diploma" we had to announce "Two" if we were getting two certificates - the second being a certificate for having read the Book of Mormon that year. The announcer assumed I was getting two and announced it for me. I smiled and said, "No, just the one!"
Getting married, becoming a Mother, becoming a Grandmother, the death of my parents, going back to school and graduating from college, getting a master's degree, and retiring, have all been hallmarks, but not necessarily pivitol points. Perhaps the most significant is coming to terms about my beliefs about the church and the courage to live openly by my own convictions, knowing the responses it engenders in others. Again, this was not a "point" but a long, deliberate, and painful process. And well worth the struggle.